“Too many days are wasted comparing ourselves to others and wishing to be something we aren’t.” Comparison, it’s an easy thing to do. It’s so easy that we do it mindlessly without even thinking about it. And why is this? It is such a waste of our time and only brings us down when we should only be bringing ourselves up. So why do we do this to ourselves? We so easily compare who we to others and constantly want to change who we are to be more like them. We need to stop this because it does us no good. Instead we should all love and be confident with who we are.
No one is perfect. Not you, not me, not even the girl who has it all. We all have our own strengths and weaknesses, we all have our own “blue print”. I think this is something we all need to be a little more mindful of. It’s so easy to compare our life to someone else but we don’t know what their made up of. So, in the long run this only hurts our own confidence. Instead of comparing ourselves to others we should be focusing on ourselves. We should become more aware of our own strengths and weaknesses. We need to be aware of the things that make up who we are so we can be confident in ourselves. Once we know more about ourself and find the things that make us up we can become more confident in our own abilities. It’s important that we are confident in both our strengths and weaknesses so we can know our limits. For example, If I have a weakness in finding balance and being organized I would not want to take on too many thing, responsibilities, classes, ect. at once. Not only would this make me feel extremely overwhelmed, it would also make me lose confidence in my abilities. Once this happens then I could easily begin the cycle of comparing myself to others and then downward spiral from there.
We need to be proud of the things that make us up, both the good and the “bad”. Once we know these we need to accept them and become confident in them. Once we accept who we are and all that we are made up of we can truly succeed and become the best version of ourselves. It’s so important to be confident and proud of who we are so we can fully love ourselves.
Be confident in yourself. Be confident in your abilities.
Be confident this will be a good day.